Apart from the above mentioned tricks, you need to practice throwing your pitch, the smile and if you are not acquainted with fine dining then add fine dining to the list of thing of practice. It is better to practice things you can control. Another important thing as an entrepreneur is to learn to take risks and accept feedback. The way you handed a failed investment and negative feedback is dearly noted by people and accepting them with dignity would have better impact on your reputation.Living in our ‘opinionated’ society, makes me wonder whether ‘civilization’ was just a form of torture which was implemented by a closeted sadist king among his subjects and people to see them miserable and secretly enjoy it. In certain situations, controversy theorist would accept that ‘society’ is secretly having its midnight meetings and increasing their expectations of the life and celebrations. It was clear that the days leading up their big day was mostly cherished days among betrothed individuals. But with the current pressure on people to have perfect day, the love birds are highly stressed during the said time and are just facing burn-out during their big day. Here are few tips to make sure you can cherish every memory with your better-half to be.
Start with a plan – NO to last minute preparations
When you have decided you are going to marry a particular person, congratulations, you have done the hardest part there is to getting married – you have successfully chosen yours only! Then people just jump and call in a wedding planner and lucky planner gets to implement all your wishes with an injection of her ideas. However, if you want an original wedding which would shout you and your partner instead of some high priced event planner sit down and have a rough idea of what you want – beach or church wedding, Indian or Italian food, Classic or Pop music, letterpress London invitations or cheap cards, after which you can go to a wedding planner. Thereby, you will know what you want instead of asking for suggestions from your wedding planner. It is also important to have a budget for everything whereby you will not overspend money (after all there is honeymoon after wedding).
Do not second guess yourself
It is normal for someone to second guess their choices. When someone is getting married, it is pretty obvious that they are going to be criticized and judged for every choice they are placing in the event beginning with their spouse to be. However, if you feel like you are to go with a certain choice, then go with it. If you keep changing it will only serve to increase the frustration of everyone around you. For example, if you are going to have custom wedding invitations, then it is important for you to have a definite number of guests. If you keep increasing the number of guests then it will directly affect the venue you chose, the invites to be sent, food prices and the list goes on.One good trick for any party is to have good food, it helps. However, make sure to have good wine (liquor) would save the day. When people are intoxicated, they will be making a fool of themselves to notice anything else. Apart from this, it is important to make sure you prioritize yourself during this time. It is important to have date nights, spa days and a little time for yourself as a person and couple. Every good marriage is based on mutual love, respect, commitment and lots of communication.